Here is the resource I mentioned in the other post that I have been using with my 9 yo daughter. It is A Girl’s Guide to Home Skills by Marmee Dear and Co. You can find it in this link: http://marmeedearandcompany.com/shoppe/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=8_47&products_id=17
I think I found out about that company through GraceandTruthBooks.com .