Dear stephanie,
Those times are so hard, and so crushing.
When something like that has happened here, I pray and ask the LORD what to do and to help me respond the right way.
Then I go to my husband and we talk about it. They are called to live with us in understanding and I believe it isn’t right to not let them know sometimes how specific comments have affected us.
Psalm 46:1 (KJV) God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble
I pray for the LORD’s grace in your home and wisdom and blessing.
You’re not alone!